slut shamming say hello to virgin shaming.

When did losing your virginity turn into this super-fast thing like trying your first sip of alcohol or puff of cigarette under the stairs with your friend well your parents are away?

It’s not like I’m saying you’ve got to be the 40-year-old virgin and if that’s your goal then props. But why have we dropped our standards so low that we can’t have any romance at all? We’ve just got to lose it and get it over and done with like a Band-Aid that’s just got to get roped off.  “So completely not worthwhile mentioning to anyone at all.”

What happened to the old romance filled passionate sex or better yet chemistry. I’m not saying don’t have sex I’m saying lose it to someone that’s worthy enough for you to remember.

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With a slut shaming at its highest we’ve hit virgin shaming so, what’s the middle ground guys, you can’t have it both ways? So honestly stop the hating and let people be themselves.

Let’s not even get into the false stereotype of what a virgin is like as discussed in “Dazed.”

No wonder there’s so much pressure to have to fit in we have this need to have to give in that we just settle for what’s out there with no regards.  The harsh critics aren’t the ones who are going to have to relive that moment and as much as we want to say it.

Having standards doesn’t make you prudish or rigid it just tells me you have rules in which you abide by and living life by those that chose to live as the oceans tide doesn’t mean you’re a slut. All it means is yours into exploring your body and life. “Liberation baby!”

We live in such a different modern area where the feminist movement has placed the modern women at such a different spectrum, and we can’t allow ourselves as women build up that doubled standard stereotype after all the work that’s gone and is still going into making a change.

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