Today I found myself rediscovering my attitude as I sat in a pool of people who were amazingly different from me. The group had their own ideas and styles and it left me wondering who I was and made me question my very being. My anxiety and lack of self-esteem made me question if I was good enough.
I don’t know if I’m the only one who has ever had moments where they have fallen into this spot of lack of self-belief where you begin to believe that you’re not good enough and that maybe you just don’t fit in at all. I’ve always never had a place to fit into so my self-esteem has always been at a low but it’s one thing to not fit in because you’re just creatively different. When you begin thinking you’re not worthy to talk or meet anyone because you just not good enough, that has everything to do with your attitude. When faced with my doom and gloom attitude I could never find solace in making friends and conversations or finding self-confidence because all I could see was my lack of style or panache in all areas.
Attitude is the way you think and feels about people especially yourself or the slant in which you observe the world and behaviors. We all have different attitudes and they change over time and in different moments depending on ourselves but one thing is for certain they definitely make up who we are.
I decided to look at things differently. My thoughts started to rewrite themselves as my attitude began to reinterpret the emotions and ideas I was feeling. I had realized I needed to feel out all that was clouding my sense of self-worth. It’s the attitude I was in that helped uplift my mood and even my perception of life. when I was constantly looking for the bad things within life then everything would seem horrible but when my attitude changed then my mood and self-perceptions changed with it.
What is your attitude?
The attitude you carry can define the person you are and who you want to be in that moment. Whether you are rowdy, feisty are simply shy these attitudes make you and being you is the most important thing.
The attitude you chose to carry can either make you feel better or make things fall apart. I let myself live within my positive attitudes in order to overcome the bad vibes that phased me.
Life is all about the attitudes we carry and how we choose to live our lives. We can’t let other dictate how we should feel about ourselves and most importantly we shouldn’t let ourselves cut happiness and all that’s good out of our lives through negative ideas.
I challenge you to be yourself and go out into the world fiercely expressing yourself in all that makes you knowing that it’s okay to be different.
A-Z of Attitude